Monthly Archives: June 2016

8 Steps On How To Get Over Your Ex

Hey guys!

I know how hard it must be to break up with someone you love. What’s worse is seeing them with someone else…believe me, I know. That’s why it is time to let go. That’s right! Time to move on and free yourself from those sad night’s thinking of them and getting upset. But of course your feelings won’t disperse and disappear forever because there will still be something there when you see he/she. (depending on your situation, some people end up hating their ex’s because of their past relationship).Anyway, 2 months ago I broke up with my boyfriend and we spoke sometimes. But today, I found out he started going out with one of my friends since 27th may, so that’s a good 2 weeks. Of course I felt hurt, because I still have feelings for him but only a little.

It can be difficult to let go but you have to. Otherwise you won’t be able to move on and meet someone knew!

Here are the things I did that I think you may find useful!

No contact!                                                            

Although you may want to talk to them its best if you don’t. Talking to them can remind you of old times with them and may even make you fall for them again, which is the opposite of what your trying to do. If they say ‘Hi’ to you, don’t ignore them, just say ‘Hi’ back, but not happily just as if he/she is an acquaintance. (Don’t show your emotions! They can take that as an advantage and will boost their ego!)

No stalking!                                                                             

You definitely do not want to stalk them, otherwise it will seem desperate and will not look good. Also you might see something you don’t like, like them meeting with or showing affection to someone of the opposite sex.

Momento’s (memories) of your relationship           

Rid of the momento’s from your relationship. For example: Teddy bears, Jewelry, photo’s, messages etc.. It will be hard to rid of such things from good times, but those good times will keep you from putting your feelings aside. If it’s something expensive, then you could maybe sell it? Do anything, to rid of these objects but DO NOT give them back to your ex! or you will seem kinda melodramatic, like your taking the brake up a bit too far.

Think about why you broke up                                       

I know I’m trying to help you rid your feelings of your ex but trust me on this one, it helped me. Think back to why you broke up. For example: I broke up with my boyfriend because he wouldn’t call me, or text me, or even ask me if I wanted to hang out! Heck! Sometimes he wouldn’t acknowledge me because he would be with his friends!.

Is he/she worth it?                                                                    

Sometimes we over think things that don’t need to be. For example: you may think that your ex is the best thing that ever happened to you. Reality check! Their not. You broke up with them for a reason. And that reason being your’s or their’s fault doesn’t matter now, it’s in the past. Keep your ex’s flaws in mind, it will make you re-think your opinion about them. Did they use to leave the toilet seat up? Leave make up everywhere? Did they drink? Lesson learnt.

Goals                                                                                 

Your ex really isn’t anything to be sad over. That’s done and dusted. It’s time to pick yourself back up and get your life sorted out. Do stuff with your life! Busy yourself hanging out with friends, family, maybe get creative and do some detailed painting. It will take your mind off of your ex.

Crying over spilt milk                                                    

Sometimes you’ve just got to let it out. Crying can be best for relieving stress. Keeping it bottled up inside will not help at all, you just need to release those tears and let them fall. It can be good to cry with someone close to you by your side, like a close friend or one of your parents, but you know that they will all say the same thing.. YOUR EX IS NOT WORTH IT.

Unfollow them on social media                                    

ver your ex, they are probably having a whale of a time with someone new and will most likely post images of them together on social media, which you do not want to see.

 

Overall I think that relationships can suck. Bad. But don’t give up hope, there is someone for everyone, you just haven’t met them yet. So keep your chin up! Focus on work/school or what ever you do for a living, and just remember this: your life doesn’t revolve around your ex. It revolves around you. Don’t let them or anyone bring you down.You are the sun, and everyone important to you are your planets and space is your life. Don’t let that meteor block out your light. Shine brighter. Meteors are destructive and they come and go, never to return just like your feelings for your ex.

I hope this helps, take care!

See ya!

 

 

 

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Inspiration, Determination, You Can Do It. I Know You Can.

Hey guys!

Do you have a dream you wish to fulfill? or a bucket list that needs completing? We all do! But what some of us don’t realize is that our life is based on time. We have a time limit on everything we do like : cooking, cleaning, working etc.. It’s as if our entire life is a great, big clock, ticking the seconds, minutes, hours, days away and we can’t do anything about it. That’s why people need to wake up and realize that they are on a time limit and need to make the most of it. No one lives forever so we are going to have to accept that fact and carry on with life. So if you keep telling yourself “I’ll do it tomorrow”, there’s a 75% chance you won’t actually do it.

Daunting don’t you think?

That’s why I decided to write this post. I’ve been taking time for granted far too long and I don’t want others to make the same mistake. For example, I’ve been trying to lose weight for at least 3 years now and there have been times when I have lost weight but then gone back to my original eating and have gained it back! I kept telling myself ” I’ll go to the gym tomorrow” but I never stick to it. Some say you have to be ready to lose weight, you can’t just force yourself..But I’m not saying give up! If you want it that badly, then you’ll work for it. I mean, I’ve wanted to lose weight for sooo long, but I can’t find any determination inside that could give me a boost. I am heavy for my age… If you met me I wouldn’t look it because of my height. I’m 5’8 and weigh 14 stone. I’m really self conscious about my body and always wear clothes that cover my arms and legs. I don’t wear much color because I fear I will look dumpy so I stick to dark colors. I also tend to feel conscious when I go out clothes shopping.

Any way that’s my story. What’s yours?

If you don’t act now to do things you want to do then you most likely will never do them until it will be too late.

See ya!

World Of K-POP

Hey guys!

I’m not sure if there are any K-POP fan’s out there, but if there are then HELLO! I do like K-POP but I’m not crazy over it. There are groups I like who perform really good, catchy songs that you love straight away after hearing the first verse! I got into K-POP when I was 11, through my sister who was listening to 2PM. After hearing their music I instantly wanted to hear more! And so then, my K-POP journey began!  But before I begin, I’m going to answer the number 1 question that is commonly asked about K-POP.

What is K-POP?

K-POP is a musical genre that originates in South Korea. South Korea have their own style of music that covers dance-pop, pop ballad, electropop, R&B and hip hop! K-POP first emerged by one of the earliest K-POP groups: Seo Taiji and Boys in the 90’s. Their experimentation with music styles ‘Reshaped Korea’s music scene’ and so foreign instruments were introduced and are practiced in the K-POP industry.

Just like America and England, Korea have entertainment companies where people can go to audition and to hopefully be accepted as a trainee, to then sign a contract to then go on to debuting! The main entertainment companies are YG entertainment, JYP entertainment and SM Town.

There are male and female groups/ bands that are famous in Asia, but they also have fan bases all over the world! Facebook have K-POP fan pages made by fandom’s for K-POP fans around the world. For instance, on Facebook if you type K-POP then it will automatically come up with lots of fan page’s and groups you can join to here the latest about your favorite group or idol whether it’s a comeback or a concert and to meet new people. Here is an example: KLUE.

Anyway, ever since I heard my first K-POP song, I started to want to be a K-POP star! But living in England and only 15, I still have some time to wait! XD In my opinion I think being a K-POP idol is a stressful life! With lots of schedules and dance practices and being away from family, it must be kinda hard . But on the positive side, you get to travel the world, create music, live your dream!

Okay, so the group I would say is the most popular in the K-POP world, is BIGBANG. They debuted in 2006  and have consistently composed such amazing, catchy songs that I can’t help but admit that I may be a V.I.P…XD  

Here is one of their songs that I first heard and will always love!

To find out more about K-POP and BIGBANG, click the link below!

KPOPSTARZ

Well guys, I hope you liked this post and stick around because I have some good posts lined up!  See ya!

 

Skeleton Design Tutorial

Hey guys!

I know we have a few months until Halloween, but I did this design for last year and scared quite a few kids… so. Why not? XD I had many good compliments about it and I thought I could share it with my readers!

Okay, so this design is actually really easy to apply and is quick. I got my face paint from my local fancy dress shop and my brush I got from super drug. The only colors you will need are of course black and white. (Unless your going for a candy skull look then by all means, experiment with different colors!)

These are the paints I used!

(I took this photo after I had done my tutorial XD)

I’ll admit… The brush I used I may of lost…. so I couldn’t take a photo..(I didn’t mean to I swear) But I know the brush I used was an Avon foundation brush! Not a brand new one, but one I had never used and didn’t need, soo it was a WIN-WIN.

(This was the brush I used to get the whiteness of my skin and to bring out the black round my eyes, nose and lips! (Hehehe Taeyang-Eyes nose and lips came to mind when I typed that.. give it a listen some time, it’s a good song! XD)

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Step 1

First you will need to wet your brush and pallet for this to work. Using your brush, carefully cover your face and chest with the white paint with downward strokes so the paint doesn’t get clumped in your facial hair. (For those who don’t know, we have tiny little hairs all over our body except the palms of our hands that are not always seen) You will want to give yourself a proper white color so you look like something from Ghost Busters XD. ( WAIT. Why did I need paint? I look like the dead anyway…)

 

                                                            

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Then with the black paint and the edge of your brush, outline the eye socket shape around your eyes. It doesn’t matter if you make any mistakes because you can always fix it later! 😉

Anyway, be sure to color your eyebrows otherwise you’ll be a skeleton who some how developed facial hair XD

 

 

 

 Step 3

 

Fill in your eyes with black then paint your nose to give yourself a boneless look.

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Step 4

SMILE!

Using your brush design your desired mouth with the top of the mouth lined on your top lip and the bottom of the mouth lined on your bottom lip, with the edges of the mouth stretching round toward your ears. Then paint in your teeth!

 

 

 

 

 

TA-DAAAAA!

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I hope you guys enjoyed this post! It took some time to write but I did it! I also hope you found this help full and easy and that you guys stick around for more posts!

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Kids love to dress up too!! (My little bro wanted to be batman but I was like…UHHHH I’m not sure about that..but I can make you a cat!! Don’t get me wrong, I’m proud he chose Batman. It means I’ve taught him well…:D)

See ya!!